Confused Forever | A Blog on the Confusions of Life

Love

Does True, Eternal Love Really Exist?

Recently I spoke to a friend of mine who told me that he is in love with a girl since childhood. He is somehow stuck in those childhood feelings till now even when he didn’t meet her for more than 20 years. I told him it was not possible because to love someone you need

Marriage

Why Do We Keep On Trying to Change People Even Though We Know They Won’t Change?

Practically everyday I nag my husband over one thing or the other. Sometimes the nagging starts as soon as he wakes up (which is he doesn’t take too well). Now I’m not a stubborn person who wants things my way all the time. My issues are very simple and very genuine (although he might disagree

Marriage

Fantasizing About Someone Other Than Your Partner – Is it Healthy?

Recently a friend of mine messaged me that he had a dream about having sex with a girl who was not his wife. He was shocked and happy at the same time, which was confusing him. He confided in me and asked whether fantasizing in your sub-conscience about someone else was actually cheating or just

Life

Why We Cannot Stop Getting Bothered about What Others Say?

So I’m pretty active on social media especially Twitter. I love how you can just speak your heart out there on every random issue. It’s my go to channel for real news these days since government has bought the media. So on Twitter you get connected with lots of other people who you don’t even

Life

Workaholism – A Growing Cult to Make Normal People Feel Guilty

My routine Sunday at home is sleeping around in my bed and watching stupid shows on Netflix. On the other hand, my husband prefers to sit on the couch in the living room and do pending / important / critical work on his laptop (because my TV is disturbing for him so he prefers not

Life

Why Parents Continue to Tame Their Grownup Children?

Should you fight with your parents because of generation gap or just accept what they say because they are parents? I started writing this blog at a time when my life was confusing, I didn’t know what to do, whom to believe, where to go, you know the usual issues that we all face (at

Life

It’s Never Enough When You Are a Girl

Girls never had it easy in life, if you have a brother then you have to compete for your space at home, if you go to a co-ed school then you have to compete with the boys in your class, if you are in office then you have to compete with your male colleagues for

Life

Chains of Life

Few nights ago, I started reading Gulliver’s Travels to my son. It’s a classic and I just love the passion of adventure that Gulliver had which made him explore the places where no other ordinary man had went. One incident in the book particularly caught my attention, which I probably would never have given enough

Life

Watch Your Language

Language was supposed to be a tool that made humans superior over animals, gave us power to express our thoughts. But this language of ours comes with a big asterisk. I believe that most of the issues today are because we talk too much. Reminds me of that saying “pen is mightier than sword”, words

Love

What Is Desire

Last night I accidently played a romantic Chinese series on Netflix. Two episodes down and I saw myself binge watching it for the whole night. Trust me it was not a series worth doing binge watching (I’m more of a sci-fi-action-thriller girl) but I ended up doing it anyways, reasons for which I will tell